here is the commit that fixes it: Touchable: Revert `minPressDuration` on Legacy Components · facebook/react-native@43c161c · GitHub
it has not yet landed in any react-native release. i requested that it be included in 0.63.4 in https://github.com/react-native-community/releases/issues/203#issuecomment-700370941
you can pull it in to your local project using something like patch-package if you like (patch-package - npm)